My girlfriend told me I raped her?

See, and IMO, that's what some people don't get. They wanna call men animals and think "cuddling", kissing, and rubbing up with a guy - even going to his bedroom and almost there is "nothing"...so, if after he's excited and revved up, throw in a "no" and he's just supposed to go from 180 to 0?

I don't play games like that. I'm not gonna start feeling up, kissing, and/or playing "cuddle" games with a guy. Shoot, I'm not even gonna invite a guy to my place unless I know in the back of my mind that "if" sex is going to happen, I'm gonna follow through.

I understand you feel bad, but unfortunately you don't know this woman and if indeed this is a scam and even if it's not, you have to stay away and protect yourself.

I'm sorta in a similar situation right now. Dude accused me of some stuff and I think he's sorry he did it, but neither of us can talk right now - even "if" we wanted to. I'm scared to reach out to him too because part of me doesn't trust him anymore and if he was capable of accusing me of what he did, then I have to protect myself and stay away.

Part of me thinks he didn't have malice, but as much as it pains me, I have to stay away until I know it's safe to speak to him. You have to do the same. Stay away from this woman. Please. Trust me on this one.

I mean, she's already did a rape kit and got a friend to come and move out her stuff. You also gotta be careful that since she started this, she may be under pressure to save face and throw you under the bus. I think dude also did that to me and not sure if he will continue to do it. I think that when he started this, he wanted to keep it simple, but others are spinning it into something bigger and now he's probably scared that I'm gonna throw him under the bus, that I'm gonna lie to save my butt and/or now his job will be in jeopardy - so to save his own neck, he's gonna throw me under the bus. I don't know I think he almost threw me under the bus, but tried to fix it...but it's too late now. What he started, others took it and are running with it. So, stay away from her. She got a rape kit and got a friend involved against you...others (i.e. the rape kit people informing law enforcement) may take what she did and run with it, and you're gonna be in hot water - regardless of her intent; and, she may throw you under the bus to save her own neck (i.e. if law enforcement want to charge her with wasting their time). So, please, stay away.

I know it's hard, because since his accusations, I've seen him here/there and he's been polite. He even stood next to me here/there and not sure if that's his way of saying that although we can't talk, he doesn't have issue with me and still has feelings....but, I have to stay away because until I can speak to him w/o it coming back to hurt/burn me, I have to err on the side of caution. I miss him so bad and I do feel I did some stuff that made him feel he had to do what he did (just like you don't know this woman and are guessing what her motivations are, I feel he was wondering if I was trying to set him up for something?).

I don't know. And ever day it's painful. But, I think he knows that I have feelings for him, but need to stay away until the dust settles. I've already gotten in so much trouble because of him. Don't need any more and part of me doesn't trust him anymore. So, you need to do the same. Stay away from this woman. Please, trust me on this one....

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