Ever slept in the same bed with a supposedly straight guy you had a crush on? Anything happen?

I've had a lot of straight friends, so I've slept in the same bed with straight guys many times. I'm not trying to fuck friends and potentially ruin friendships though.

Yep, we actually snuggled, that was it.

I shared a hotel room with a supposedly straight colleague at an industry conference. There were two beds but he wanted us to sleep in the same one. We ended up having wild monkey sex, broke a lamp and had the front desk call to tell us to shut up or we'd be kicked out.

Yes. It’s a mixed record. Mostly, nothing. But over the years, a few straight guys expressed curiousity about gay sex - and they advanced quickly from oral to anal and always bottomed. A couple become casual FWBs.

In simplest terms, it’s nothing more than “it feels good”. Zero percent attraction to me as a man or attraction to men.

Yes, we slept together, but since I cannot fall asleep easily, I think he was the only that did it, it was nice

R4, that's what happened to me too

Yup. Just what R1 said. He was supposedly straight and definitely married. But I fucked him in the ass anyway.

i shared a bed many times with my best friend senior year. he knew i liked him and i knew he was straight, but he liked getting head and even asked for it.

Yes, and it didn't play out as I would have liked.

I know I’ll get flamed for this bc you do t want to hear about women, but as I’m here and gay reading this I’ll say it anyway.

As a les I shared a tent with my HS best friend/crush on a wilderness excursion, and in my last years of College shared beds with several cute straight gfs after nights drinking. during an exchange. Awkward every time and I’m glad nothing happened there as I’m no longer friends with the girls in question (and in hindsight didn’t really vibe with them when sober).

The worst was after graduation when I went to be a tutor in Europe for a summer; I fell in instant infatuation with the neighbour of the family I was staying with, the most naturally beautiful 22 year old ‘straight’ woman I’ve ever met. We had an electric connection right off so we felt comfortable spending a weekend off work roaming around the city we were in and flirting the entire time, and even had the house to ourselves once we got back home and turned in. She offered to sleep next to me in the bed I was using, in just a tank top and shorts...and I turned her down stuttering something about her fiancé and shaking like a leaf. Three years on and having way less inhibition and concern for the sanctity of straight people I am kicking myself for not making a damn move. I haven’t been able to forget her since.

Not to worry, R15. There are other fish in the sea.

A couple of times. Yes, we had sex. With one I knew we would have sex and the other was a complete surprise. With the second one we started talking about sex and before you knew it we were blowing each other. No anal. Now that I'm over 40, my straight friends are married and there are no opportunities to experiment. Plus, we would probably now book separate rooms. Anyway, I have enough sex with gay men and don't have the same interest in my straight male friends that I once had.

We held each other. It was nice.

Yes. Spring break in college. Nothing happened. Probably because there were four other guys in the room.

R14, how did it play out?

Who are these people sleeping in the same bed as straight guys, and why?

Maybe it's just a generational thing.

Do millennials sleep in beds with other people after parties or whatever? When I was younger and was at a house overnight after a party, everyone who was unattached had their own little sleeping area. be it a bed or a couch. I mean, people would get up and fuck on occasion (this happened as much with the straights as the gays BTW). But we didn't stack multiples in one bed.

r15, I don't mind at all lesbians talking about having sex with women. It's the women who go on about this cock or that, never letting on that they are women, WHO DRIVE ME UP A FUCKING WALL. They don't belong here. You are perfectly welcome, however.

What R2 said. Yes, I have. Nothing happened, and I preferred it that way, ultimately.

Straight guys are so gay these days.

He jokingly asked me for a handjob. I told him that if he really wanted one, I would. Then he asked if I was serious. I said I was, so he pulled down his shorts. I jerked him off. He never touched me. We went to sleep. He actually thanked me the next day. I think he knew I wouldn't tell anyone we know.

Yes I did with a friend in college. He was a total stud pretty much hit the ceiling the orgasm was that intense. But he was definitely straight. It was a one time thing. But a great memory

R28, how'd the conversation go that led to sex?

Had a super sexy straight friend. We went down the shore on a Saturday. We had such a good time we decided to stay overnight at a motel. They only had one room with one bed so we shared. Slept in our underwear. He looked so sexy in his briefs. Early morning, the sun was peaking in and I could see his sheet was tenting. I reached over and lower it to reveal a nice sized boner in his shorts. Watched it for an hour before he turned over then watched his ass for another hour till he woke up. Wish we had cell phones back then, I could have watched that moment over and over.

R29 Simple discussion about what makes a good blowjob And that I thought I had it mastered. It progressed from there.

In college. Some hanky panky. Nothing explosively good. Some neutral OK sex. I remember 2 who initiated making out and then later I wished I hadn't because I knew that was all I would get and they got something (making out with a guy who was really really attracted to them) and what did I get - a kiss from a straight guy - NOT cock or ass.

Yes. He got a blowjob from the woman who was also in the bed with us.

Suuuuure have!

"So, I'm Now My Straight Friend's Boyfriend? Huh?"

When I was closeted I slept in the same bed with friends. I would always hope for something to happen, especially from one fried I was attracted to. Sometimes I’d awake during the night and his leg would be draped over mine and I’d start getting really hard. But nothing ever came of it. I was too chicken shit to make a move. This was late 90s, early 2000s.

When I was in college my older cousin was living with my parents, and she had an insanely hot long term boyfriend. One weekend when I was home he came up to visit her and we all went out with my parents and got smashed. Me and the boyfriend ended up playing video games in the basement until 4 am and crashing on the day bed. I woke up the morning to us spooning and him kissing my neck. It was awkward and my cousin dumped him shortly after for (seemingly) unreleased reasons. He’s now dating another woman, which is such a waste of his perfect ass.

The Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss bedroom scene is the hottest movie depiction of this I've ever seen.

It's the first scene in the video below.

No one else? No stories from frat life?

[quote]No stories from frat life?

Stories, yes. But disqualified under the "supposedly straight" requirement. The first man who ever sucked my dong was a guy who wanted me to join his fraternity.

Look at all this story telling on here. If I didn’t know better I would think I was reading a new novel, cause you know damn well you were not fucking your straight friends. Please already.

Depends on what you mean by "straight." Married to a fish? Check. A father? Check. Passing himself off to the world as the model of Republican rectitude? Check.

But also a bottom. Check.

I've been there and done him.

[quote]Depends on what you mean by "straight."

What do they fantasize about sexually? It's really that simple.

It would be believable for one or two people to claim they ended up fooling around, but almost everyone claims they FUCKED, with some even claiming they fucked their straight married friends in the ass. Please!

I’ve slept in the same bed as straight men a few times and only ONCE, when we were 17 at a camp, did anything happen, and all that happened was touching and exploring each other with our hands. After that nothing else and we acted like that didn’t happen.

This is a true story.

It happened to me back in high school when I was camping with a group of Eagle Scouts. I shared a tent with another guy. We were both 18. He was also the captain of the football team. White, muscular, with an Abercrombie & Fitch vibe. I was a long-distance runner, and had more of a lean dancer's build.

We only had one sleeping bag, so we unzipped it and spread it out and slept on top of it. When he first dozed off, it was hard not to stare at his well-defined pecs and also, when he occasionally rolled over, his tight bubble butt that strained against his plaid boxer shorts.

During the night, his dick slipped out of his shorts and accidentally entered my mouth. It made my neck spasm, and my head bobbed up and down along the length of his girthy penis until he came in my mouth.

At that point, he woke up and said, "Dude. What the fuck?"

I explained what happened, and he just shrugged and went back to sleep.

I really didn't purposely fellate him, but I'm kind of glad it happened.

Oh, and in the morning he fucked me. But we never talked about it.

He's now married with seven children, so I'm convinced he was straight. And his name was Tom. Although back then, we called him Tommy Boy.

[Quote]It would be believable for one or two people to claim they ended up fooling around, but almost everyone claims they FUCKED

Yeah, so many stories in general escalate to spontaneous anal sex which makes it more unbelievable. Most random fooling around doesn't go past oral.

Exactly r47. If a legit straight man is willing to try stuff it’s not usually going straight to full on anal sex. It’s usually touching and/or oral. That’s it.

Hahaha, straight men don’t share a bed with gay men. You’re referring to curious closet cases.

Keep 'em coming boys! Maybe work a neighbor's dad our wrestling coach in there! Thanks.

r45 i’m very sorry for your loss.

I like how most of these supposedly true stories read like polished gay erotica. My story isn’t so glamorous.

Yes I ended up in bed with a married straight mate as we were both very drunk and there was only one bed in his apartment (wife was away). He hit on me within 5 minutes and we pulled his boxers off then mine and started blowing me. We then proceeded to have incredibly drunken sex whereby the room is spinning and you can’t be too energetic as you could throw up! It then concluded with him on lying on top of me, pumping, grunting and trying to find my hole as I held his ass and hoped he wouldn’t find it!! He then came over my hole and rolled off and passed out, I had to fall asleep in the wet patch!!

The worst part was the waking up in the morning, hung over and both feeling embarrassed as hell, not talking about what happened and the shame of the pair of us then having to stumble around his bedroom completely naked looking for the boxers he’d pulled off and tossed away!!

This was years ago and I barely saw him again after this incident.

R52 hey, I’m r45 and that night in camp hurt me and my best friends relationship also. Meanwhile we didn’t do anything past feel ups and rub each other out. After that our relationship changed, I went to college in Long Island, him in Indiana, and we grew apart.

His girlfriend was part of why we had issues too. I always felt she knew me and him did something and she resented me for it. She hated my guts for no reason and he followed her lead eventually and cut me off 100% and when he would visit wouldn’t contact me. We ran into each other a few times and he ignored me or treated me like shit. Whatever.

They rushed and got married the end of Freshman year and he never finished school.

Yes.

A work trip and a room was booked with one bed. He was a large man so we touched a bit while sleeping, we were both hard as fuck in the morning but nothing happened.

[Quote]Hahaha, straight men don’t share a bed with gay men

Do you live in Russia? I feel sorry for you that your experience with straight men is that they are all such homophobic assholes they would never dare sleep in the same bed as an icky gay men.

I can assure you plenty are not like that man.

Hey R45 I’m R52 and I had the same thing with mines wife. We were reasonably friendly but about a year after that incident they had a child and I stopped hearing from either of them (online). I’m certain he told her.

No matter how hot it seems, when you have sex with a platonic mate it changes stuff dramatically. As you drop a wall that is up in platonic friendships. It’s easy for sexual relationships to become platonic and you can forget you had sex and be friends. But having sex with someone you have long been friends with is a dicey area and can wreck the friendship.

Most wouldn’t wanna sleep with us. Let’s be real. But there are some that would, mainly if they felt comfortable with us.

R56, that is why I no longer will sleep with friends. Ever. I had one that was very into me and blatantly would ask to blow me cause they felt it was no big deal and wouldn’t change our relationship, but I wouldn’t budge. I told them I’ve been there, done that, and no matter how much you claim it won’t change the relationship, it ALWAYS does.

I had one friend in Dallas (a half white, half Mexican hottie from a rich family that was the biggest asshole ever and doesn’t know real work if it bit him in the ass) that would fuck his friends and roommates all the time like it was nothing. I would tell him he should stop cause that will backfire one day, and he doubted it, until one caught feelings and it ruined their friendship cause he didn’t view his friend the same way. Then the other friend was jealous that another dude was getting more attention from him etc.

It was a mess.

I have. Straight friend who was into fitness who then became a bodybuilder. His body which was good before was now TIGHT. Initially he had personal issues so I didn't want to take advantage and ruin the friendship. But since he was a healthy American male with an equally healthy libido, we had a few encounters but never full fucking. We did share a bed on occasion, and man did I love feeling him up all over, head to toe!

[quote]I’ve slept in the same bed as straight men a few times and only ONCE, when we were 17 at a camp, did anything happen, and all that happened was touching and exploring each other with our hands.

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